It’s Happening! 🎉
You’ve said yes! 💍 Both families have agreed, the convincing stage is done (phew 😅), and now comes the real adventure—the stress of PLANNING the wedding! From endless guest lists to ensuring no aunty feels left out, it can feel like a rollercoaster. But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered with this ultimate guide to creating the Shaadi of Your Dreams! 💕✨
Step 1: The Budget Battle 💸
First things first—set your budget! 📝 Whether you’re going for a grand Big Fat Desi Wedding or something more intimate, knowing how much you can spend is key. Pro-tip: Keep an "emergency fund" because spoiler alert unexpected guest counts or last-minute decor additions will push your costs higher than expected. 💰
Step 2: The Venue Hunt 🏰
Finding a venue that fits your guest list and your theme can feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack. 🪡 But don’t lose hope! Look for places with ample parking (because Desi baraats don’t just show up—they roll in like royalty 🐴🎺). Oh, and ensure the venue is experienced with handling traditional wedding setups for flawless execution.
Step 3: The Glam Squad 💄👗
Brides and grooms, get ready to sparkle! ✨
- Bride: Whether you’re rocking a traditional red lehenga or experimenting with pastels, don’t forget to accessorize! Maang tikkas and bangles FTW! 💃
- Groom: From sherwanis to turbans, don’t sleep on your look, guys. Style those mojris and bring your A-game! 💪
Don’t forget to coordinate with the fam—nobody wants clashing outfits in the group photo. 📸
Step 4: The Invitation Drama 📨
You’d think sending out invites would be simple… but nope. 😵💫 Between digital invites for your tech-savvy friends and ornate cards for those VIP relatives, this is no small task. Add a shaadi hashtag for some Insta magic! 🌟 #MehndiMadness #ShaadiSquad
Step 5: The Menu Wars 🍛
Ah, food—the true MVP of any Desi wedding. 🥳 You’ll need appetizers, mains, desserts, and maybe an afterparty chai stall. ☕ Highlights include biryani, butter chicken, gulab jamun, and don’t forget the chaat corner! 🌶️ Have a tasting session so you can eat first, decide later. 😋
Step 6: Decor Goals 🎀
From floral stages to fairy-lit backdrops, your decor needs to scream glamorous. 🌸✨ Think bold colors, statement centerpieces, and loads of marigold garlands. 🌼 Oh, and don’t skimp on the lighting—your photos will thank you! 📷
Step 7: Dance Like Nobody’s Watching 💃🕺
The Mehndi or Dholak night is your time to shine! Organize dance practices early because someone (there’s always one!) will need extra rehearsals. Bonus points if you surprise the crowd with a bride vs. groom dance-off! 🏆
Step 8: The Emotional Rukhsati 🥺
As the festivities wind down, prepare for the waterworks. 💧 The Rukhsati is an emotional moment that deserves extra attention. Pro-tip for brides: waterproof makeup is your best friend! And don’t forget those perfectly captured shots of teary-eyed goodbyes, comforting hugs, and that bittersweet farewell. 📷😭
Step 9: Live Your Best Shaadi Life! 💖
At the end of the day, your wedding is about celebrating love and family. Sure, things might go a little off-script (when the caterer brings extra dessert trays by mistake 🫣), but trust us, those moments will be the most memorable.
So there you have it! You’re now ready to plan the ultimate Desi wedding without losing your sanity. 🚀 Remember, it’s all about the joy, laughter, and making memories with your loved ones. Alhamdulillah for traditions that bring us all together! ❤️