So the rishta’s locked in, the families have exchanged a few too many cups of chai, and you’ve reached that golden milestone: Baat Pakki.
It’s not quite the wedding day yet... but let’s not pretend it isn’t a big deal. Because in desi culture, baat pakki is basically the soft launch of the shaadi—and we’re here for it.
If your family group chat is suddenly titled “Event Planning 🤩” and your mom is asking you to find subtle but elegant outfits, this blog is for YOU.
🎀 1. The Look: Elegant, Not Over-the-Top (But Still Stunning)
This isn’t your shaadi day, but let’s not act like you’re going to show up in jeans. For the bride-to-be, think soft glam: flowy pastels, florals, light embroidery—enough to say “I’m the main character” without saying “this is my valima.”
Grooms? Just be coordinated and presentable. And maybe get a haircut.
🎁 2. The Baat Pakki Box: Yes, It Deserves One
One word: bidh or meethai.
This is your moment to make the first impression really stick. Our customised bidh/mithai boxes are here to make your baat pakki sparkle in every Instagram story it’s going to land in.
Choose from:
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Minimal and modern boxes (neutrals, ribbons, calligraphy)
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Extra glam boxes (gold accents, florals, dramaaaa)
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Themes to match your event colors
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Space for names, ribbons in your preferred color, and yes, matching carry bags
✨ Bonus? They look like a dream and hold everything from meethai to chooriyan to those signature almonds wrapped in net (you know the ones).
🪄 3. Keep it Cute, Keep it Personal
Want to make the event extra special? Here’s how:
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A tiny welcome sign at the entrance. Nothing OTT. Just something sweet like “It’s Official: Lyba & Umair 💍”
Little things = big impact.
🫖 4. The Event Vibe: Tea, Talks, and Lots of Smiles
Baat pakki events are usually intimate—just the core families (plus that one aunty who was going to find out anyway). Keep the menu light, the flowers fresh, and the vibes positive.
And no, no one has to “say yes” out loud. The samosas will say it for you.
🛍️ 5. Don’t Forget the Details (They Matter)
We’re talking:
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Matching envelopes for the rings or gifts
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Mini giveaways (if you’re feeling extra—think tasbeehs, sweets, or keepsakes)
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Coordinated serveware or table styling (if it’s at home, you’ll thank us)
It’s all in the details, baby.
📸 6. Photos or It Didn’t Happen
Trust us—you’ll want the pictures.
Hire someone or assign your photo-crazy cousin to capture the magic. The “putting the ring” moment, the candid smiles, the awkward but adorable couple shots—it’s all gold.
Oh and... take pics of the boxes. We beg you.
💗 7. Most Importantly: Enjoy It
This is one of those rare pre-wedding days where stress is (mostly) low, and excitement is high. You’re not juggling guest lists or dance practices yet—you’re just celebrating a yes.
Smile. Soak it in. Be present.
Because after this? You enter full-on shaadi prep mode. And honey... we’ll see you there. 😏
Need custom boxes for your baat pakki? You already know where to go (hi, it's us).
From ribbons to fonts, colors to carry bags—we’ve got it all wrapped up. Literally.